Kid-friendly restaurants in New York City: eating out with children

New York is easier with children than its reputation suggests. Restaurants are small and busy, but the city is full of casual places that expect families, and the culture of eating early, sharing dishes and taking food away works in your favor. Choose by kind of place and time of day, and the city works well for families.

When should you eat?

Early. Many New York restaurants are calm at 5 or 5:30 p.m. and packed by 7. Lunch is easier than dinner, especially on weekdays, and a late lunch at 2 p.m. avoids both rushes. Weekend brunch has long lines, so arrive at opening or go on a weekday. If your child naps, plan the meal around the nap and not the other way around.

What kinds of restaurants suit families?

Pizza slice shops and pizzerias, diners, bagel shops, delis, dumpling houses and Chinese restaurants with round tables are dependable, because food arrives fast and portions are shareable. Dim sum is a good choice: small plates come to the table, children can try a few bites, and the noise is part of the experience. Food halls and markets, such as Chelsea Market or Essex Market, let each person choose a counter. Fancy restaurants may welcome children but have little flexibility, and tasting menus are usually a poor fit.

How do you manage a stroller?

Space is tight in many New York restaurants. Call ahead and ask whether a stroller can be parked inside or near the door, and whether the restaurant has a step. Many parents use a folding stroller or a carrier for restaurants and keep the larger stroller for the street. In food halls and markets, aisles are wider, but they can be crowded on weekends.

What about picky eaters and allergies?

Order simple things: noodles, rice, plain pasta, cheese pizza, chicken, fries, fruit. Most restaurants will make half portions if asked. If your child has an allergy, say so when you order. New York City's health code requires restaurants to display an allergy poster and to tell a patron on request whether a specific allergen is in a dish. Be specific and ask how the food is prepared.

Where can children run around before or after?

The city has playgrounds in almost every neighborhood, and large parks such as Central Park and Prospect Park have play areas near cafes. A takeout lunch from a deli or market can become a picnic. Waterfront parks in Brooklyn and Queens have views and space. Plan restaurant visits near a park so that restless children have somewhere to go.

How much does it cost, and how do you tip?

Prices vary greatly, from a few dollars for a slice to tens of dollars a plate. Sales tax is added at the register, and a tip of 18 to 20 percent is customary at a table. Families with small children take up more of a server's time, so tip toward the higher end, especially if the table is messy. Ask for a children's menu or a half portion to save money.

What if a child melts down?

It happens. Step outside, take a short walk and come back, or ask the staff to pack the food to go. Most New Yorkers are sympathetic, and staff would rather you leave calmly than struggle. Keep snacks, wipes and a small activity in your bag.

How do you choose a neighborhood for families?

Pick the neighborhood where you are spending the day and eat there. The Upper West Side and Upper East Side have many casual places near Central Park, Park Slope and Brooklyn Heights in Brooklyn have family cafes and pizzerias near parks, and Astoria and Flushing in Queens have large, relaxed restaurants. Chinatown has dim sum and noodle shops that suit big, loud tables. Museums such as the natural history museum and the Brooklyn Children's Museum have cafes inside, though prices are high, so bring snacks. Downtown, near the South Street Seaport and Battery Park, many restaurants face the water and offer outdoor seats.

What should you pack for a family meal?

Bring wipes, a spare shirt, a small toy or coloring book, a reusable cup and a snack for the wait. A phone or tablet with headphones is a last resort that works. If you have a baby, bring a bib and a bottle, and ask staff to warm food if needed. A small bag is easier than a large one in a crowded restaurant. Ask for the check early if the child is tiring, so that you can leave when you need to. These habits make the difference between a stressful meal and a pleasant one.

One more point is safety and comfort. New York sidewalks are crowded, so hold a young child's hand near the curb and at restaurant doors, where people come and go. Ask for a table away from the kitchen door and the bar, and keep hot dishes out of reach. If your child is sensitive to noise, a quieter table near a wall or a window can help, and the staff will usually try to oblige.

How do you remember the restaurants that worked with children?

New York has a restaurant for every kind of family meal, and the ones that worked are the ones you want to find again. In the Mosey app, rate the slice, the dumplings or the pancakes by the dish, add a tag such as Kid-Friendly or Quick Service, and keep your places in a list. Share it with other parents, who can add their own, and follow friends with children the same age to see where they take theirs. Rating while the details are fresh helps you plan the next outing.

Rate your next family meal in the Mosey app and keep the good places in one list.

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